* Fix data races around p2p records

Fixes https://github.com/ethereum-optimism/optimism/issues/11328

* Remove some constructor boilerplate

* Add data race fixes for op-node/p2p tests

* Include book locking for record deletion

* Add missing read locks

* Move locks into wrappers

* Remove ping service trace parameter from public API

* I came in search of data races and I found refactors